She’s a slow cooker, not a microwave. You might be microwavable – two minutes on high and you’re already peeling the back wrapper – but she requires a longer simmer before you heat her to a rolling boil. Turn the page to find out how to press her buttons. If you want to jumpstart your sex life and keep it on a high level all the time, break your old sex relationship routines and follow these tips;
Routine 1 – Sex is a race.
Break it: Explore her. Focus on her thighs and lower belly. Make a mental circle two inches around the outside of her vagina, and don’t cross the line while you kiss, lick and caress. You’ll ignite her never endings and bring her close to her red zone. It makes sex about discovery, not some destination.
Routine 2 – Same time, Same place.
Break it: Relive the past. Take her to the garage and reclaim the space you long ago ceded: Seduce her in the back-seat of the car. It feels a little public, it’s steeped in testosterone, and there’s a throwback, high school quality to it. Make it a quickie, which has its place in the sexual diet; having lots of sex begets more sex, because you stay connected.
Routine 3 – Predictable foreplay.
Break it: Work out together. Think of it as fat-burning foreplay. It will raise her dopamine levels, easing her anxieties. She’ll feel the sex is about her and not some random need she has to accommodate. Your post-run sweat has androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.
Routine 4 – Lopsided first moves.
Break it: Tie her hands. It’s now up to her to figure out how to remove your shirt, tie, cuff links and pants. You’ll share a few laughs and marvel at her ingenuity. Whether you tie her up or she binds you, the game will break your predictable, first move habits.
Routine 5 – TV, then sex.
Break it: Read to her. It doesn’t have to be erotica. It’s an intimate activity that makes her focus on your voice. The deeper, the better. Low voices are a sign of high testosterone, which ups her attraction to you, according to a Scottish study. Read lying in bed with your head up, to dip on octave; it forces you to push air with your diaphragm instead of your lungs.
Routine 6 – Habitual hand holding.
Break it: Caress her neck. Sure, holding hands can work as an aphrodisiac. It shows her you’re devoted and proud to tell the world. But after a while, its poignancy wanes. A stepped-up public display of affection will deepen her connection to you, so she’ll be more willing to really give herself to you in the bedroom.
Doing your typical sex routines is not bad. But if you really want to keep her satisfied and make her sexually addicted to you, show some efforts, be more sensual and follow the above mentioned tips to ignite her sexual desire as well as your sex life.